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IS THE HONEYMOON OVER?

 
How many times in the past few weeks have you asked yourself, “What am I doing??!!” Whether you are a student or host family, most likely you have asked yourself more than once. By now, everyone is beginning to feel comfortable and their true personalities are beginning to surface. At the moment, your relationship with one another should be a pretty good one. Students have made friends, are involved in activities, and are pretty comfortable teasing and talking with host family members. This is the time to really get to know one another, to talk about the differences, to work towards making memories and friendships that will last a life time. Whether a student or host family, you will learn much about yourselves during this time. Later on you will discover that each of you have made a difference inHappy Family With Exchange Student the other’s life.
The majority of students takes this whole experience in stride and tries to make the most of this great opportunity that they have been given. There are some students that never seem to be satisfied. My advice for those students is that this is a once in a lifetime opportunity and you should make it one of the best experiences in your life. Realizing this, and accepting it as a challenge is the key to having a great experience. So often we hear, “But, in my country…”, “It is SO difficult because I don’t have so many rules in my country”, “The kids here don’t talk to me”, “I don’t have friends here like I do in my country…”. These are all true statements. There are good and bad things about every country and in every home! You don’t like everything about your country, right? You don’t like everything about your home in your country, right? Well, there are things everywhere, in every place that you will like and not like. But, you can focus on what you do like and have a great time! This is why you became an exchange student; to see something different, to learn something different! It is very different and even difficult at times, but, if you look at this experience as a challenge, to learn all that you can, and experience all that you can (legal things, please!), you will succeed! If you succeed, so will your host family. They in turn will learn about your country, through you.
As for friends; if you are only speaking to other exchange students or e-mailing your friends back home, you are missing out on a HUGE opportunity. You came here for different reasons; for some it was to make life-long friends in another country, for others it may have been to improve your English. Students, whether here in America or your own country, are not going to search you out. You have to talk to them. If you are too busy writing your friends because, “they need to know how I’m doing and what I’m doing” or “… they are my friends and I can’t live without them”, or “I don’t want to lose my friends in my home country”, you are missing out on the chance of a lifetime! Your friends will still be there when you get home. It is your choice whether you go home, leaving friends here, or if you go home with no friends, no memories, nothing but the bags you came with. What a waste of your life.
If you have only made friends with other exchange students, you are not taking advantage of your stay in America. While I have never met anyone who had too many friends, I have met those who had only a few. Not making American friends and not getting involved with school and community activities means your English won’t improve and you will not learn about the people, country, and culture that you came here to learn. So, once again, I strongly urge you to get involved in as many activities as possible and take full advantage of the opportunities of your stay in the United States.
WEIGHT GAIN
All students WILL gain weight! It is just a normal process due to your metabolism. Typically it is about 20 pounds. Don’t worry!!! Within a few weeks of your return home, it will fall off. PLEASE do not make eating a chore. You are here to enjoy America. Just be careful you don’t eat so much you hurt. Eat just enough that you feel comfortable and get lots of exercise! Eat healthy foods, only a little of the candy and chocolate. ENJOY and don’t worry. I GUARANTEE IT WILL FALL OFF!!!

STUDENT OF THE MONTH / HOST FAMILY OF THE MONTH CONTEST
We have decided to do a MONTHLY contest for families and students. Send us a letter explaining why your host family should be the family of the month. Host families; send us your letter explaining why your student should be student of the month!
We will review each letter and choose ONE for each. We will put the top 3 of each in the newsletter. The winners will receive special t-shirts AND have their letters on our newly improved and updated WEBSITE!! We will begin with December! Please have your letters to me by the 1st of December to be entered.
Student Honor Roll THANKSGIVING CONTEST
We are having a Thanksgiving contest!! Winners will receive a COOL tee shirt! -Write about your Thanksgiving experience with your host family! What did you have for Thanksgiving dinner? Tell us about any similar celebration you may have in your country and compare the two. Tell us what you did, did you go anywhere, how many family members did you get to meet. Finally, write a comparison of your first Thanksgiving to being an exchange student. How does it compare? Thanksgiving is a time of coming together, of family, of being thankful. How does that compare to being an exchange student? Send your entries to me at the address below! All entries must be received by December 5, 2006. Winners will be announced in December Newsletter!
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INFO YOU CAN USE
The following websites should help everyone with questions about driver’s licenses in the United States
http://www.drivers.com/topic/67
http://info.insure.com/auto/teenstates.html


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